The come down from the excitement of this adventure is upon me. The feeling of missing a comfortable place to call home and people that “just get me” has begun. There is an internal fight that I can and am happy here but what am I missing?
I told myself I was not going to take part in English arenas and attend English events, but on days like today it is needed. All cities have cafes that are English and cater to the primary English speaker. When hearing this, I was not supportive, but I have realized that these arenas are also beneficial to those that are native and want to learn or practice English as well. In Madrid, I have stumbled upon this perfect coffee & book shop. It gives me comfort when I am feeling homesick and missing the connection through language that I didn’t realize I would miss. You don’t realize how important it is till it is gone or you are unable to communicate to others simple concepts.
If you are ever in Madrid, Spain for an extended amount of time, I strongly recommend checking out J & J Books in Malañsana. They are a welcoming environment to be able to feel more at home. They have intercambios at night as well as trivia and a Sunday Brunch (which is hard to come by in Spain!).
In addition to finding places that make you feel comfortable and “at home” learning the native language to be able to communicate is key. One of my co- workers from the US told me to find a book in English and the same book in Spanish and to alternate chapters to learn Spanish. I have also started to take Spanish classes to be able to increase my vocabulary, but it is going to be a slow process. As uncomfortable as it is, language is key abroad.
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