City Adjustments

You don’t realize how much of a “small town girl” you are till you leave the small town. Having anything you can imagine at your disposal has lead me to truly appreciate the city. I have met more people from more backgrounds and cultures in the past week then I have in my whole life. The beauty of the world is at my fingertips and it is incredibly inspiring.

Being new to a city can be overwhelming and confusing. In the past week I have worked through phone dilemmas, learning public transportation as well as finding the nooks that will inspire me in my work and writing, and banking (what a nightmare).

With being new in a city and knowing minimal people, it is important to try to meet as many people as possible to benefit the most from your time and experiences. Here are my suggestions to getting integrated into a new city Solosploring style:

1. Join an Inter Cambio: Inter cambios are designed to help younger people meet and learn the native language. In Spain many include Tapas, drinks, and dancing. These weekly events can help you to get to know locals but also learn a language you may be struggling with. Some places to find Inter Cambios include: MeetUp and City Life Madrid.
2. Take language classes: The most difficult part of moving to a new city is feeling disconnected from the culture which includes connecting with people through language. Having a firm grasp of the language can help to meet more people as well as not feel so isolated in a city.
3. Experience the culture: In Spain there are so many festivals that are a true example of the liveliness of the country and their culture.
4. Find the local places: Since being here I have been pulled to many bars and clubs that you only hear English spoken. As much as this could be comforting, it is not the reason I came to Spain.

Adjusting in a new city isn’t easy and is incredible uncomfortable. The most difficult part of moving to a new city is feeling disconnected from the culture which includes connecting with people through language. If you are to move to a new city, make sure to expose yourself to as much as possible to become connected and more comfortable.